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What to Do In Paris with Kids (Besides Eat!)

Jacob & mom on the Bateaux Mouche

Forgive me if I’m bleeding baguettes this week but my recent trip to Paris provided beaucoup material that may be helpful if you ever make the trip.

My friend, Tami, and I took our 12-year-old sons to France to visit Tami’s sister and explore Paris. In the next two posts I’ll focus on what we did besides eating, which I covered in my last dispatch.

Don’t get me wrong, eating is a highlight for kids in Paris.  Jacob and his friend, Avery will remember the pain chocolat more fondly than the pain of trekking around the Louvre. But you can’t go to Paris and not take in a few museums and some of the amazing sights.

Louvre

Don’t make the same mistake we did by taking your kids to the Louvre on the first day. Our boys were still jet lagged and the museum was overwhelming for all of us. We tried to break it down to just the Egyptian section and the masterpieces but that still took us nearly three hours and they were tired, bored and miserable by the time we left.  The Louvre is an enormous and impressive building but difficult to navigate. Much of the art is old and austere with religious themes that didn’t interest the kids. We thought the audio tour would be a good way to engage them– especially since the equipment was a Nintendo DS– but it was confusing and not user-friendly so I would not waste money on it again. Next time, I’ll limit the Louvre experience to just the masterpieces or leave the kids at home.

“Winged Victory” at Louvre

Hard to get close to “Mona Lisa”

“Venus di Milo”
(another masterpiece lost on 12yo boys)

Musee D’Orsay

After the Louvre disaster, we bravely persevered and took them the following day to the Musee D’Orsay– a much more successful experience.  The museum was an old train station so the look is unique and captivating. It’s also where the “Hugo Cabret” book and movie are set so the giant clocks have become iconic for kids. The art is more modern and accessible, especially the amazing Impressionist collection. One of my trip highlights was walking through the galleries of works by Monet, Cezanne, Degas, Gauguin, Renoir, and Van Gogh, conjuring up all my art history knowledge from college and sharing it with Jacob. I can’t say it was his favorite activity but he didn’t hate it and retained some of what he learned. The museum is a manageable size so we let the kids wander on their own for an hour, and they loved that freedom.

My fav museum in the world

Lady Liberty highlights sculpture gallery

Nice view from the famous clock

–Montemartre/Sacre Couer

Riding the Metro was memorable for Jacob because he learned the city’s geography and appreciated the people watching– especially when some gypsies nearly pickpocketed me while waiting for a train. We took the Metro to Montemartre and walked to the funicular– a tram that takes you up the hill to Sacre Coeur. We couldn’t help but be awed looking up at the enormous church, towering on a hill above all of Paris. The carvings, gargoyles and sculpture on the church’s facade are amazing and it’s only a quick walk around the peaceful inside before you head out to the steps to take in the impressive city view.  Although we chose not to, you can climb up to the top of the church, but Jacob liked the view from the front steps. There are several cute shops leading to the church and although we didn’t stop to eat, I’m sure you could find a nice cafe.

Kids loved the Metro:
great people watching & less walking!

On line for the funicular

Basilica di Sacre Coeur

Amazing view from Sacre Coeur


But wait…there’s more! I’ll post the rest of my things to do with kids in Paris later this week. Voila!

My Top 7 Favorite Paris Eats


I spent last week in Paris with my 12-year-old son, Jacob and some friends. It was a trip I had planned and saved for for more than a year. When you tell people you’re going to Paris they cluck with envy and often share personal experiences of their time there.  I had been once before– when I was 21 and traveling after studying for a semester in Florence– and I had fond memories of the sights and feel of the city.

The City of Light lived up to my memories and the hype.  We had a magical week walking the neighborhoods, wandering through museums, sightseeing, shopping, and of course, eating. If you ask Jacob to name his favorite part of the trip he will certainly say the food. We ate with abandon, but miraculously I think I lost weight. The French eat small portions and don’t snack so I guess all the walking balanced out the bread, cheese, and desserts I consumed.

Paris is an epicurean’s delight. Everything is so fresh, I don’t think we ate any processed food the entire week.  I can’t say enough about the bread.  Every morning, Jacob had a pain chocolat (chocolate croissant) or pain avec jambon et fromage (ham and cheese croissant) and even at the most basic cafe, they were the best we’ve ever had. Several mornings I walked into a random bakery and ordered a giant baguette that was crunchy on the outside and doughy and warm from the oven on the inside, and cost less than a dollar. C’est magnifique!

Here are my Top 7 favorite Paris eats:

–Greens and Gruyere  This classic French salad usually comes with walnuts or pine nuts and a light vinaigrette dressing. The rich, gooey gruyere is baked so it’s soft and easily spreads over the crunchy toast. Yum!

Steak Frites   This was Jacob’s fav for sure. We loved it so much, we visited the famous Le Relais de l’Entrecote twice in a week. There is no menu as they only offer one meal. No-nonsense waiters serve you a green salad with Dijon dressing and two helpings of steak frites with a special green sauce that you can’t get anywhere else.  Delicious desserts include profiteroles and fruit melbas topped with gelato.

Falafel in Le Marais. Who knew you could get such terrific Middle Eastern food in urban France? Le Marais is an old neighborhood on the Right Bank  that’s home to many Jews. The falafel, meatballs, tabouli and hummus at Chez Marianne were a tasty distraction from traditional French fare.

Crepes  Is it wrong that we had crepes four times in a week? I admit to my weakness for the light, thin, buttery pancakes smothered in Nutella and bananas, topped with whipped cream. We also indulged in savory crepes with ingredients from greens and assorted veggies to eggs, ham and cheese. We found the excellent Creperie du Clown on rue des Canettes, but the crepes from street stands were equally scrumptious.

Macarons  These melt-in-your-mouth cookies are in pastry shops all over Paris but the famous bakery Laduree is where you want to sample them. Macarons are two light, flaky meringue-like biscuits held together by ganache, buttercream or jelly. They come in a wide variety of flavors from raspberry to pistachio, but my preference is chocolate and cafe.

Laduree

-Hot Chocolate at Angelina  This fancy cafe on rue de Rivoli, near the Tuileries Gardens, is pricey but worth the splurge for a hot chocolate and pastry break on your way to shop on the Champs-Elysees. Imagine melting the richest dark chocolate bar and drinking it out of a teapot. It’s somewhere between hot chocolate and chocolate syrup, and with a dollop of fresh whipped cream, it’s sweet bliss.

-Gelato  Paris isn’t the only place you can get gelato, but it’s one of the best. It must be the all natural ingredients and dense flavor that make this Euro-ice cream so good. Many flock — as we did– to Berthillon on the Ile Saint-Louis for the grande dame of glaces. The chocolate was other-worldly.  Don’t I look psyched to dig into this raspberry and chocolate cone at Gelateria Amorino on rue de Buci?  They shape the gelato into a rose which is almost too pretty to eat…but not quite!

Jacob & friend Avery sample gelato at Berthillon

If you have a pleasurable Paris provision to share, please tell me in the comments. Bon appetit!

Top 7 Highlights of Mom’s Day

I had a lovely Mother’s Day. As my boys (ages 6, 8, and 12)  get older, their wishes are more heartfelt and genuine and they seem to actually show some appreciation. Wilson bought me beautiful tulips, proving  he’s learned a thing or two about what I like. Who says you can’t teach an old dog new schtick?

Here are some other highlights from my day of the Mom:

–Guilt-free morning run with beloved friend and fellow mommy

–Free pass on cooking and cleaning. Wilson made pancakes and bacon AND  took care of the dishes. (My understanding is, much like on birthdays, calories don’t count on Mother’s Day)

–Homemade cards from boys with messages as simple as “Hape Mothrs Day” and as deep as “Your guidance and support have gotten me to the person I am now so thank you.” You mean all that nagging is paying off?!

–Post-soccer flowers. The thoughtful coaches of both my boys’ teams gave each player a rose to offer mom after the game.  What’s cuter than a parade of grinning, sweaty boys carrying roses towards their beaming mothers?

–No arguments from boys on dressing up for dinner out. They actually wore  pants without an elastic waist, and a collared shirt without the name of a sports team emblazoned on it. And no complaining….that’s true love!

–Mother’s Day wishes from friends. Usually greetings are limited to family but with the beauty of social media and texting, I was feeling the holiday love online today.

— Sharing Mother’s Day with my mom. When one of my kids was whining about the restaurant being too fancy and too far she snapped, “Today is about us, the mommies. You have to do what we want to do today because every other day is about you!”  She’s badass. Thanks Mom!

To all the mothers and people who love them– hope you had a great day. You deserve it.

My Top 7 to Follow on Twitter

Curious about Twitter but need to know who to follow? Let me help.

Twitter turned 6 years old last week. Hard to believe it’s been around that long—it wasn’t on my radar until about a year and a half ago. Now I can’t stop. It’s my guilty pleasure and sometimes my enemy.

I started out slow, intimidated by how to use it. Hashtags and retweets were confusing. I was so green about the blue bird. But it’s not brain surgery, kids. Now I’m versed in its wonder and addicted to the camaraderie it offers. It’s probably the former news producer in me, but I find cruising Twitter extremely satisfying.

I’ve tried to lure in my techno-phobic family and friends by explaining it’s like a worldwide water cooler. You go to Twitter to be part of the conversation.

Sounds like Facebook you say? Yes, it’s a similar social media model. But it’s more interesting when I’m in control of content.  Whom I follow is my choice and I can unfollow in a heartbeat, with no hard feelings.

It’s difficult to say no to friending on Facebook, even if I don’t have the slightest interest in my former colleague’s trip to Vegas or kid haircut photos from a high school acquaintance.

On Twitter I can stalk celebrities safely, much like reading the star sightings in gossip mags—but live. I can read what Courteney Cox is doing in NYC and what Arianna Huffington thought of the State of the Union address, in real-time. I turn to Twitter when news events happen— like an earthquake, political debate, Whitney Houston’s death, or award shows– to see what people are talking about.

Tweets can only be 140 characters so there’s a creative challenge to say a lot in few words. You waste less time reading through long posts and comments. I can stroll through my Twitter feed while on line at the grocery store.

Many of you naysayers will claim you don’t need another time suck. I agree. It’s tragic how many hours I’ve lost going through the “follow” lists of people I follow. It’s not efficient or productive, but it’s fun.

If you haven’t already, give it a whirl. It takes two secs to sign up and I’ll give you a few Twitter favorites to follow:

@crushabledotcom (entertainment scoop with some edge)

@AliEWentworth (funny bits from a regular mom in a famous life)

@chucktodd (NBC Newsguy Tweets intelligently abt politics and sports)

@ryanseacrest (Tweets during Idol commercials, has insider music info)

@DannyZuker (“Modern Family” writer, hilarious and often offensive)

@iamsambee (“Daily Show’s” Samantha Bee owns mommy sarcasm)

@sethmeyers21 (“SNL” head writer makes many funnies in few words)

Who do you follow on Twitter? Tell me in the comments and don’t forget to follow me @carpoolcandy!

 

 

My 7 Favorite Things To Do In Key West

It’s family “Vacation” time in Florida this week. We may not be the Griswolds from one of Wilson’s favorite 80’s movies, but we’re darn close. We packed up the kids and headed to Key West for a few packed days of sun and consumption. My in-laws have lived in Key West for almost 10 years so they’re practically natives, or “conchs,” as they’re called locally. We’ve visited many times and always wish we could stay longer.

Key West is a great place for kids and has a unique vibe you won’t experience anywhere else. Its rich history goes back hundreds of years and its architecture is a combination of anti-Bellum South with Caribbean flair. On the main drag, Duval Street, there’s a bar every 12 feet, and t-shirt shops galore.  A fisherman’s town on the water, it would be tough to find a restaurant without fresh fish leaping off the menu.

With kids or without, Key West is one of my favorite vacation destinations. Here are a few reasons why:

Yoga at Ft Zachary State Park Beach, Key West, FL

Yoga on the Beach

Whether you’re a beginner or a regular on the mat, practicing yoga in a natural setting takes the experience to a new level. Listening to the crash of waves and feeling a soft breeze under the trees as you stare at the blue horizon makes anyone feel like they can do a headstand. An energizing and peaceful start to your day.  http://yogaonbeach.com/classes/key-west-yoga/

Tuna Nachos at Schooner’s Wharf

It would be wrong to have a favorite list that doesn’t include food. Fried wontons covered with sushi-grade raw tuna, drizzled with soy dressing, and sprinkled with scallions and seaweed. I can’t explain why this makes my mouth sing. You must try it yourself!

Henna Tattoos on Duval Street

This was my second year getting inked. I’m not a risk taker and probably will never have the guts to commit to a real tattoo so the temporary henna is as close to skydiving as I’m gonna get. This year I took 12 year old Jacob, who chose a flaming basketball for his forearm. We are both absurdly proud of our tats and wish they would last longer than two weeks.

Sunsets at Mallory Square

Mallory Square is probably the largest public space closest to the Southern Most Point in theU.S. so it’s where people gather to watch nature show off. As the sun sinks slowly into theGulf of Mexico, the sky turns colors of red, orange, and pink that almost look fake, they’re so stunning. The square also draws street performers of all ages and talents who take advantage of the large crowds to try to amaze and cajole the tourists into forking over money to watch them eat fire, ride unicycles, balance sideways on ladders, and break out of chains while inside a box. My boys watch each act with mouths agape.

Key Lime Pie and Conch Fritters

If you get to Mallory Square, find the food truck that sells conch fritters, as some say they’re the best in town. Conch is a chewy fish that gets ground up and fried into balls of crunchiness, similar to a crab cake but with its own flavor. This local delicacy is served best with tangy tarter sauce.  And for dessert……Key Lime pie is one of Wilson’s favorite treats and also hard to avoid in Key West. This one from the restaurant at the Pier House Resort was special because of the flamed meringue top and graham cracker crust. Yum.

Land and Sea Creatures

My kids love all the animals they see roaming around Key West. Geckos run rampant and luckily move too fast to catch or I’d be coming home with a bucket full. We also saw giant iguanas scurrying in the bushes and climbing on palm trees, and chickens are as common as pigeons down there. No one looks twice at a crowing rooster prancing down Duval Street, avoiding the drunken college kids and bicycles. This year we also took a boat tour and saw sharks and dolphins, which my kids will be talking about for months.

The Attitude

Conchs are cool. You can usually tell the locals from the tourists pretty easily in Key West. While the sunburned cruise ship day trippers and college spring breakers are wearing “Sorry I’m Drunk” t-shirts and downing rumrunners with parasols, the conchs sport that deep wrinkly tan that never fades and carry fishing rods and beer bottles. Conchs are friendly and real and I’ve never met one who didn’t have a story to tell that cracked me up or broke my heart.

We can’t wait for our next adventure in Key West. Let me know in the comments if you have any favorites for 2013!

Wishful Thinking: My Top 7 Lottery Splurges

 

I don’t usually play the lottery because I ‘m not a gambler. But I am a joiner so today I bought myself three lottery tickets. You have to be in it to win it, right?

Of course I have a better chance of getting my own talk show than I have of winning the $640 million jackpot– but when it gets this big, I like to take a chance and be a part of the lotto mania.

I bought one ticket for each of my three boys (ages 6, 8, and 12) and immediately began mentally planning all the ways I would spend the money.  Any  winner has to get an attorney and think carefully about how to invest the windfall. After putting enough money in the bank for my kids’ and grandkids’ college funds, paying off my house, and giving a nice sum to several charities, I would want to splurge. Here’s what immediately comes to mind:

1. A beach house with at least six bedrooms close enough to hear and smell the ocean and big enough to invite friends and family for weekends and parties.

2. A vintage Mercedes convertible and a pair of expensive sunglasses.   ( No car seats!)

3.  A Mac book for me and iPads for Wilson and all the boys.

4.  Shopping sprees for me, my mother, and two friends at Barney’s and Anthropologie for clothes, Christian LouBoutin for shoes,  and Gucci for bags.

5. An interior designer and credit line at ABC Carpet and Home.

6. Orchestra seats to every show and concert I’ve wanted to see for years and season tickets to the Mets and Giants for Wilson and the boys.

7. A safari trip in Africa with our extended family.

I’ve seen a plethora of news stories this week telling the woeful tales of past  mega winners who lost it all or were more miserable than before they hit the jackpot. Those stories are comforting to the millions of losers who won’t win tonight. But until disappointment hits, a girl can dream can’t she?

Hey, you never know.

What’s on your lottery splurge list? Tell me in the comments. Happy dreaming!

Top 7 Kid’s Texting Translations

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Jacob’s texting needs translation

I often find myself lost in text translation.

My oldest son, Jacob, is a mature, confident, and savvy 12 year old.  Too smart for his own good, he can be infuriatingly manipulative. As a sixth grader, he walks to and from middle school through our suburban downtown, so we gave him a cell phone to promote safety and communication.

Jacob, however, believes the only purpose of the cell phone is to text his friends. When I communicate with him, I almost always call, so I can hear his voice and take care of our business efficiently. Like many pre-teens, he prefers to text me in phrases I often don’t understand, which makes me feel old. While a phone call would allow for context, he will come up with 62 reasons why texting 4 abbreviated words is the best way to ask me if he can avoid homework and go to the park after school.

I don’t enjoy our texting relationship because it somehow allows him to forgo manners and respect for sassy slang.  When I was forced to text him recently about why he hadn’t answered his phone or texted me for 30 minutes after school, his typed response was ”Chillax dude. lol… be home in a few.”

Now is that any way to talk to your mother?!

Text-speak for the kids is quite literally another language, one of which I have only remedial knowledge. I asked Jacob to translate some of the more amusing phrases he uses to speak to his friends:

1.  WTF and/or OMFG—I think you can guess the meaning here.            (According to Jacob, since only the “F” initial is being used, it isn’t technically swearing.)

2.  NMJC—Not much just chillin’.                                                                       (The natural answer to “what r u doing?”)

3.  JW – Just wondering                                                                                        (A likely response to the stock question, “why did u ask if I like her/him?”)

4.  TTYL—Talk To You Later                                                                                (Should really be “text you later”—good old-fashioned conversation is lost on these kids.)

5. BRA— Friend                                                                                                        (As in brother, bro, brey….not lady’s lingerie.)

6. IKR—I know, right?                                                                                           (A common response to “My mom’s so annoying…”)

7.  PITR – Parent in the Room                                                                           (The horror!!)

Did I clear some things up for you? Please share any texting tales you have about your preteens and teens… and more texting translations are always welcome!